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66 | How to Build A Biblical Confidence In A World That Glorifies the Wrong Things

• Paula Behrens | Certified Aroma Freedom Practitioner, Pastor, Christian Coach • Season 2

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What if the confidence you've been chasing feels empty because it's rooted in the wrong soil? Today we're digging deep into what true, lasting confidence looks like for Christian women seeking to live authentically in a world of Instagram perfection and external validation.

We begin with Sarah's powerful story—a woman who traded comparison for community by hosting a "Confidence in Christ" dinner that transformed how she and her friends viewed their worth. This leads us into exploring key biblical foundations for confidence through passages like Proverbs 31:25, which reveals that genuine confidence comes not from our circumstances but from our unshakable identity in Christ.

Various biblical examples show us what faith-fueled confidence looks like in action. These stories from scripture, demonstrate that true confidence often emerges through vulnerability and trust rather than personal strength. We conclude with ten practical disciplines anyone can implement—from targeted prayer practices to strategic community engagement—that cultivate confidence rooted in God's promises rather than worldly approval. These aren't quick fixes but transformative practices that build lasting dignity and self-worth.

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Hey there, friend, have you been chasing a version of confidence that feels shallow and temporary? Join us for today's show, where we will explore the true essence of lasting confidence, equipping your heart with feelings of dignity and deep self-worth. Are you feeling a bit swamped with your weekly Bible study prep, wondering how to make your lessons both engaging and impactful, searching for fresh insights to inspire and spiritually nourish your group? Well, you are in the right place. Our Sound Wisdom Bible study lessons are here to make your preparation easier, revive your teaching and profoundly enrich your group's faith journey. Before we get started, I'd like to give a shout out to Renee Booe. She says episode 54 is on fire. Teachings on the freedom Jesus gives us is so, so needed. I find that so many of my clients don't truly know the freedom God offers. I love how Paula teaches on this topic and backs it up with scripture. Thank you, Renee, it's so good to hear from a sister in Christ. If you'd like to leave a review, we'd truly appreciate it. On Apple Podcasts, simply scroll down to the five-star rating section and click on leave a review. If you're using a PC, open the iTunes app and you'll find the link near the top. Share your thoughts with us today and your review could be showcased on one of our upcoming episodes. What a joy it is for me to hear from our listeners. Let's embark on this adventure together.

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But first let me tell you about my Faith Building Club. You'll find over eight months of printable resources crafted just for Christians. These include everything from prayer and devotional journals to detailed Bible study lessons and reading plans, all designed to deepen your connection with the Word and bring fresh perspectives on your weekly studies. You can find these valuable resources at faithbuildingclubcom. No spaces. Hi. I'm Paula, a follower of Jesus, a grandma of six and a retired pastor with a heart for empowering believers. Ready to get started. Grab your Bible, your printable resources and prepare your heart for insights from God.

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Let me tell you about Sarah. She was known for her infectious laughter and her unwavering faith, but she often found herself comparing her life to the seemingly perfect Instagram post of others. Ever been there before. One Sunday, after a particularly uplifting sermon about finding worth in God's eyes, Sarah decided to take a stand. She gathered her friends for a "Confidence in Christ dinner in her home, where they shared stories of their struggles and triumphs, prayed together and laughed until their sides hurt as they left the dinner, sarah realized that true confidence wasn't about having the perfect life or the most likes on social media. It was about embracing the unique, beautiful mess that God had created in each of them. From that day forward, sarah and her friends found a new sense of dignity and self-worth, knowing that their confidence was rooted in something far greater than the fleeting trends of the world.

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Welcome to our Bible study lesson, True Confidence Rooted in Faith. The concept of confidence can be elusive and commonly misunderstood, especially for Christian women striving to live out their faith. The modern narrative frequently pushes a brand of confidence rooted in personal achievements, physical appearance and social status. However, as followers of Christ, where does our true confidence lie? This lesson dives into the heart of true confidence, a confidence not built on worldly measures but rooted in the unshakable promises of God. Throughout this lesson, we will explore key biblical passages such as Proverbs 31. 25, which describes a woman who is clothed with strength and dignity, and Hebrews 10. 35-36, where believers are encouraged to not throw away your confidence and it will be richly rewarded. These scriptures and others provide a foundation for understanding how true confidence manifests in the life of a Christian woman. By looking at biblical examples and applying their lessons, we will discover how to cultivate a deep, enduring confidence that empowers us to face life's challenges and opportunities with boldness in faith. Join me now as we uncover the beauty and strength of true confidence through the lens of Scripture tailored for Christian women in this modern age. Okay, now you might want to look up some of these Bible passages before we get started, Proverbs 31. 25, Hebrews 10. 35 through 36, Proverbs 3. 26, Genesis 18. 12 through 14, 1 Samuel 1. 10 through 20.

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True confidence, especially within a Christian context, is markedly different from the self-assurance promoted by the world. It is not a trait that fluctuates with the rise and fall of personal achievements, nor is it dependent on external validation. True confidence is a stable trust and reliance on God and His eternal promises, regardless of circumstances. This confidence transcends human ability and understanding, rooting itself in the identity given to us by Christ. In the Bible, the story of Esther is a compelling illustration of true confidence in action. As a young Jewish woman in the Persian Empire, Esther could have easily been overwhelmed by fear and insecurity. However, her confidence was not placed in her situation or her own capabilities, but in the guidance and providence of her God. Her brave decision to approach the king, risking her life to save her people, showcases a profound level of confidence born from her faith. We see that in Esther 4.16. Similarly, Ruth exhibits a quiet but powerful confidence in her decision to leave her homeland and commit herself to the God of Israel and her mother-in-law Naomi. Ruth's actions reflect a deep trust in God as she steps into an uncertain future, illustrating how true confidence is often expressed through courageous choices in times of vulnerability. That's Ruth 1. 16 through 18.

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Take a few moments now to reflect on your own life. Where do you tend to place your confidence most often? In your abilities, in others or in God? How does this affect your daily decisions and feelings of security? Considering Esther's and Ruth's stories, what aspects of their confidence in God can you apply in your current life challenges? How does understanding your identity in Christ impact your confidence, especially in situations where you might naturally feel inadequate?

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The Bible is replete with verses that lay the foundation for a Christian's confidence. This confidence is not rooted in our own abilities or circumstances, but in the steadfast character and promises of God. For Christian women, navigating the complexities of modern life with this biblical assurance is vital to maintaining spiritual health and witness. One pivotal scripture is Proverbs 3. 26, which says, For the Lord will be your confidence and will keep your foot from being caught. This verse reassures us that our security and success do not depend on human wisdom, but on God's guidance and protection. Another key verse Philippians 4. 13, says I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me, and this one is often cited for encouragement. It emphasizes that our capability to face life's challenges comes directly from our reliance on Christ's power, and not our own. These scriptures are not mere words, but are promises that have been proven true in the lives of countless believers. They offer a profound sense of security as we face professional setbacks, personal trials or spiritual battles. By anchoring our confidence in these truths, we can move forward in life with a courage that is both empowering and counter-cultural.

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What steps can you take to deepen your understanding of God's character, thereby strengthening your confidence in His promises? How can you incorporate the assurance found in Proverbs 3.26 and Philippians 4.13 into your daily life, especially in areas where you feel vulnerable or uncertain? Can you recall a time when relying on God's promises changed your approach or outcome in a challenging situation? In the journey of faith, Christian women often encounter various challenges that can shake their confidence. These obstacles might include societal pressures, personal insecurities and unexpected life trials. Understanding these challenges and equipping oneself with biblical truths are crucial steps toward maintaining a steadfast confidence in God. Societal expectations, for instance, can place undue pressure on women to conform to specific standards of success, beauty or behavior. These external pressures can distort our view of what true worth and confidence should be based on. Additionally, personal insecurities often stem from past failures or negative experiences which can hinder our spiritual and personal growth.

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Life's trials such as illness, loss or financial hardship further test our confidence in God's goodness and plans. The biblical stories of Sarah and Hannah provide profound insights into overcoming these challenges. Sarah, despite her initial doubt and laughter at God's promise, ultimately experienced God's faithfulness when she bore Isaac. We see that in Genesis 18. 12 through 14. Hannah, plagued by personal grief and societal scorn due to her barrenness, persistently prayed and trusted in God's provision, which was fulfilled in the birth of Samuel. We see that in 1 Samuel 1. 10-20. What are the primary sources of pressure or insecurity that threaten your confidence? How do these align with or contradict God's truths? Reflect on Sarah's or Hannah's story. How does their experience with God's faithfulness encourage you to trust in God during your trials? What are practical ways you can reaffirm your confidence in God when faced with societal expectations, personal insecurities or life's trials?

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Cultivating true confidence is essential for Christian women because it serves as a spiritual anchor in a world full of uncertainties and pressures. This kind of confidence stems from an intimate and enduring relationship with God, shaped by trust and reliance on His promises. When true confidence is nurtured, it empowers women to rise above societal expectations and personal limitations, allowing them to act with courage and clarity in alignment with their faith. It also enhances their ability to witness to others, providing a living testimony to the peace and strength that come uniquely from a life surrendered to Christ. By deepening their confidence in God, women can navigate the complexities of modern life with grace and resilience, making informed decisions that reflect their spiritual convictions and ultimately bring glory to God. This journey of cultivating confidence not only transforms their own lives, but also influences those around them, spreading hope and encouragement through every action rooted in faith. How has being part of a Christian community affected your confidence in God? Can you identify ways to deepen these relationships?

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Proverbs 31.25 says she is clothed with strength and dignity and she laughs without fear of the future. This verse reminds us of the powerful and resilient spirit of a virtuous woman. As you embrace this verse, seek to embody the strength and dignity that it speaks of trusting in God's plan for your life. May you find comfort and courage in knowing that your faith in God's promises will allow you to face the future with joy and without fear. May this study inspire you to live with confidence, knowing that you are enough, blessed with the love and grace of your Heavenly Father.

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Here are a few practical steps to cultivating true confidence. First, maintain a daily prayer routine that focuses not only on request but also on thanksgiving and acknowledgement of God's past faithfulness. Then start and end your day by meditating on scriptures that reinforce God's promises and your identity in Christ. On a regular basis, meet with a community of like-minded believers who encourage and challenge you to grow in your faith. Keep a spiritual journal to record prayers, insights from scripture and testimonies of God's answers and interventions. Incorporate worship into your daily routine as it refocuses your mind from the problems at hand to God's sovereignty and grace. Engage in acts of service within your community or church which can shift the focus from self to serving others, reinforcing the purpose and confidence that comes from living out God's commands. Continually educate yourself on biblical teachings and Christian living through books, podcasts and sermons that emphasize reliance on God. Have a mentor or accountability partner to discuss your challenges and spiritual growth with. Use biblical affirmations to reinforce God's view of you, combating negative thoughts and self-doubt, and then recognize the importance of Sabbath rest in your routine to reflect, rejuvenate and restore your spirit under God's care.

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Which of these practices are you currently not engaging in but feel called to start? What has been preventing you from starting and how can you overcome these hurdles? Make sure you open up your resource, because there are a lot of journaling questions for you to answer in this lesson. Grab your pen and paper or stylus and embark on your personal journey of discovery with God. Download your resources now at faithbuildingclub. com. I hope today's discussion brought you inspiration and insight. If you found it valuable, could you spare just 30 seconds to share my Faith Building Club with another study group who might benefit from these resources? That's faithbuildingclub. com, (no spaces). Your support means so much and it will help us spread God's word. Also, if you have a moment, follow the show and leave us a review. It truly warms my heart to know our sessions are making a difference. See you on the next episode of Sound Wisdom. Until then, keep your Bibles open and your coffee mugs ready. Adding a little fuel makes our scripture journey even more delightful.